Thursday, July 1, 2010
Sensative and independent
Our youngest Gena has gone through some um.... emotional changes. She's always been a sweet loving and caring little girl, still is but I notice she's getting more sensative and also demanding. Why? Example: yesterday she's in her room playing with akira, she runs to the hall way and tells her dad : daddy u told me you were going to buy me a ant littliest pet shop and u didn't now I'm mad at u go buy me one!" ok where did that come from!?? So she ran back to her room and I called her back and explained to her that just because she's mad doesn't mean she gets her way... She asked why not and I told her because when ur mad and have an attitude it doesn't mean you get ur way... It's not how we do things here.... She apologized to her dad for being mad... Another example: last night I had the Grls get ready for bed... I hear Gena scream at akira : I told u I can doooo it!!! *grunts angry* and I call Akira and ask what happened.. She notices Gena hving problems with her pj shirt sooo akira trying to be helpful (which only happens once in a while as siblings they have good and bad days we all did lol) she helped her... Well Ms moody got angry... I called Gena and asked why she was mad.. "Akira helped me but I can do it and I don't want her to help me and I'm mad!" me and Oni had to calm her down and let her know help is ok... But not to be angry when someone offers help, especially sister... So she gave akira a hug and said sorry... Gena is very independant.... Always has been... Poor akira!! I told Oni ok she's a moody one lately, he gave me a look... "well I wonder why,(he meant the preg ) and I agree... Once I get home both Grls start up... When I'm gone they behave and do good.... Geez! Lol I'm a jinx! Lol
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Haha! I think you guys are doing great. She needs her parents to remind her to control her emotions. Otherwise, she can grow up to be an uncontrolled emotional adult. So true about the pregnancy affecting her though. It's amazing.
It's sooo funny !! When she says certain things it's like ok where did u get that!! One day I asked: do u want a brother or sister, her response: Mooom if I tell I want doesn't mean it's what ull get! :O true though haha she got it from tv!! We don't laugh infront of her but it can be funny...:) being a parent has sooo many levels!! Lol
That is hilarious. Gena is just fighting to be a baby and a big girl....she is confused. Maybe she feels threatened by the baby because she will have to play a new role. Maybe you can spend alone time with each of them separately so they feel secure. I think even though they are excited for the baby they also feel unsure.
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